Pour how much boiling water in there before you dump it out and add the meat?

Not sure I agree with @amyb56 that it's all about writing it like a real person. The real issue is timing and frequency. Most of those 30 follow ups are probably sent within 24 hours of the panel, which makes them blend together. If you wait a full 48 hours, your note already looks different because it shows you've had time to process what they said, not just scribble notes during the talk. Also, asking about a specific tool is fine but only if you actually plan to use it or care about it. Asking fake questions just to stand out is still a trick, just a smarter one.

Funny how rushing beats overthinking almost every time.