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1d ago
inHad a bride tell me her last stylist ruined her hair 2 weeks before the wedding
Start with a deep conditioning treatment right away and don't use any heat for the first week. That orange tone needs a blue or purple toner to neutralize it, but be gentle with the processing since the hair is already damaged. For the split ends, you're better off dusting the ends now rather than a full chop since you only have two weeks, and tell her to come back for a proper trim after the wedding. Focus on bond repair products in between sessions and keep her on a strict no heat schedule until the big day, even if she complains about the styling. Do you really think that other stylist charges $450 and can't even manage basic toning or are people just throwing money away these days?
1d ago
inTIL I'd been cleaning artifacts wrong for years
Oh man, that dusting tip is the real deal! I've been telling people that for years, you'd be surprised how much microscopic grit just sits on an old finish waiting to ruin your day. @sean_barnes24 is spot on about the soft brushes too, I ruined a nice little oak chair once because I was too impatient to grab the right tool. But here's the thing that gets me - what about those old shellac finishes? I had a family heirloom table from the 1920s and even the softest cotton pad left a weird haze on it after a few wipes. Ended up learning the hard way that some of those old finishes are so delicate you're better off just blowing the dust off and leaving them alone unless you really know what you're doing. Makes you wonder if we're all overthinking this whole cloth thing when a gentle puff of air is really all they need.
1d ago
inVent: Spent 5 hours on a forge weld that should have taken 30 minutes
Oh man, I was reading this article the other day about how modern gas forges run different than old school coal setups, and it was saying how easy it is to mess up the air/fuel mix without realizing it. I had a similar thing happen with a san mai billet last month, kept getting these little cold shuts on the edges and couldn't figure out why until I checked my burner and found the air gate was almost shut. 5 hours is rough though, I think I only wasted about 3 before I gave up and went inside.
2d ago
inThe debate over detailed worldbuilding vs leaving gaps for readers
...and that reader theory story really changed my whole way of thinking. I used to be all about having every single detail worked out before I wrote a word. But then I had a similar thing happen where someone saw something in my writing that I never intended, and it made their experience of the story so much richer. Now I try to leave just enough gaps so people can bring their own ideas to the table, like a conversation instead of a lecture. The blueprint is still there in my head, but I think the magic happens when the reader gets to build a little of the house themselves.
3d ago
inJust found out the average age of a boilermaker is 57 in the LA local
Well I can tell you right now that local down here in San Diego is pretty similar. I remember working a shutdown at the power plant a few years back and the oldest guy on my crew was 68 and still climbing boilers like he was 30. Out of maybe 20 guys, I think only 3 or 4 of us were under 45. The rest of them had been in the trade since the 80s and they were all talking about hanging it up within 5 years. It does make you wonder who is going to take their place with all the younger workers not wanting to travel or do the heavy welding anymore.