Family pickle day turned skeptics into fans

My family used to avoid my fermented foods. I started a weekly pickle making session where everyone adds their own spices. Now they ask when the next batch is ready. Using simple jars and fresh veggies from our garden made it easy and fun.

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4 Comments

the_piper6mo ago

Group activities can sometimes add pressure instead of fun. What if someone just doesn't like pickles, no matter how many spices they pick? All that chopping and waiting for fermentation is a lot of work that might not pay off. Using garden veggies sounds nice but not everyone has that option, so it sets a high bar. Turning a personal hobby into a family requirement could just make people resent it more.

gracec446mo ago

Love this! Turning the skeptics into fans by making it a group activity is so smart. Letting everyone add their own spices gives them ownership. Using stuff from your own garden must make it taste even better and feel more special.

sandra_lane66mo ago

My friend hosted a pickling night (with herbs from her patio pots) and it kinda fell flat. @the_piper's point about pressure rang true, since her cousin clearly didn't want to be there but felt obligated. They all picked different spices, which led to a jar with only black pepper (pretty bland, honestly). Now she just makes small batches alone and shares them if people ask.

green.john6mo ago

But what if forcing everyone to join in just makes the whole thing a chore? Sometimes people feel pressured to act happy about a group project when they would rather just be left alone. Not everyone has a garden, and that can make the activity feel exclusive instead of special. Turning a quiet hobby into a loud group requirement might just make people like it less.