Remember the fun of grabbing snacks on the go.

That "save it for Thanksgiving" idea actually makes sense... spreading out family drama makes both holidays easier. Christmas is already packed with stress and forced cheer, so adding that talk then would just blow things up. Having it at Thanksgiving gives everyone a whole month to cool off before the next gathering. Plus people are in a more thankful mood in November, maybe more willing to listen. It's the smarter move.