Try shrinking it to three tiny habits you'll actually do at 60 days.

Man, Dan laughing about it two weeks later says everything, because even if the apology starts fake, the real test is whether the person actually puts in work when nobody's watching. Most don't, and that's why the Dan moment hits harder than any polished statement.

Funny how the small stuff is where people get tripped up most. Skipping the letter feels like saving time until it costs you the whole case. Sending it first is the move.